Attracting your soulmate isn’t about striving, searching, or chasing love. It’s about aligning with love — by healing, reconnecting with God, and learning to love yourself as deeply as God loves you. The truth is that you are God’s love.
If you’ve experienced toxic patterns, unavailable partners, or relationships that drain your spirit, this guide will show you how spiritual healing, self-love, and embracing God’s love prepare you for the healthy, loving, and soul aligned partnership you’re meant to receive.

Why God Must Be at the Center of Your Soulmate Journey

Many people approach soulmate attraction through manifesting or visualization alone, but without God, the process becomes ego-centered instead of soul-centered. 

When God is at the center:

• You stop searching from a place of emptiness
• You begin attracting from a place of wholeness
• You feel guided, protected, and aligned
• You move away from toxic dynamics and toward divine partnership

God loves you unconditionally — this is the love that our soul craves and searches for.  When you embrace this love and grow in love with God, you naturally grow in self-love and become magnetic to attract what is in your Divine Path.  The love that many people search for is actually the unconditional love that only God can give, so until you embrace this, no relationship will ever fulfill this desire.

Healing Is the Foundation of Soulmate Attraction

Why Healing Old Wounds Matters

If your heart is carrying unhealed pain, trauma, or emotional cycles from the past, these wounds can create magnetic patterns that pull in the wrong people.
Healing clears the root cause of these negative patterns and opens the path to a soulmate who reflects the love, respect, and emotional health you desire.  Like attracts like – this is the Law of Attraction.  

Signs You May Need Healing Before Attracting Your Soulmate

• You attract emotionally unavailable partners
• You feel abandoned, unworthy, or “not enough”
• You’re repeating the same painful relationship cycle
• You fear intimacy or being fully seen
• You feel incomplete or that something is missing without a partner in life

Healing isn’t about fixing yourself — it’s about returning to your original divine wholeness.

Self-Love: The Energy That Attracts Your Soulmate

Self-love isn’t indulgence. It’s alignment.
It’s choosing relationships that match your identity as God’s beloved.  Self-love is realizing that you are the greatest creation that God has created and that you are spirit having a physical experience. Self-love is seeing with love and joy your past, present, and future.

 What Self-Love Looks Like in Daily Life

• Saying no to unhealthy relationships
• Honoring your boundaries
• Speaking kindly to yourself
• Caring for your emotional needs
• Trusting your intuition
• Accepting yourself
• Loving and forgiving yourself unconditionally

As you embody self-love, you naturally attract someone who loves you with the same depth and devotion.  You will not accept into your energy field anyone who does not treat you with the same respect, dignity, and care that you have for yourself.

Self-Love Changes Who You Attract

People who love themselves attract partners who can give and receive love with maturity, softness, and presence.
People who carry inner wounds often attract partners who echo those wounds.

Your soulmate is drawn to your healed, whole self.

Forgiveness: The Doorway to Love

Why Forgiveness Is Essential to Attracting Your Soulmate

Unforgiveness — toward others or yourself — creates spiritual blocks that close the heart.
Forgiveness doesn’t excuse what happened. It frees you from the emotional contracts that keep you tied to past pain.  

By forgiving, you release:

• Anger
• Shame
• Self-blame
• Disappointment
• Fear

True forgiveness closes the karmic circle of soul contracts we have with others.  It closes the chapter in the present timeline so that you don’t have to repeat the lesson of forgiveness in a future timeline.  When these contracts are complete, you release the negative energetic cords that keep you attached to the situation.  

Self-forgiveness is often more difficult than forgiving another person.  Remember that God loves you and forgives you unconditionally. When you love and forgive yourself unconditionally you can powerfully step forward on your Divine Path and doors that were once closed will open for you.  This allows you to step forward with the faith that you are worthy and deserving, and you become more magnetic to attract the person that God has for you in your Divine Path.

Building a Real Relationship With God

You can’t attract a God-aligned relationship if you’re disconnected from the One who designed it.

How to Strengthen Your Connection With God

• Spend time in prayer and quiet reflection
• Ask God to reveal what needs healing
• Invite God to lead your love life
• Surrender control and trust divine timing
• Look for signs, synchronicities, and spiritual nudges

A soulmate relationship is a God-woven connection — and you must walk with God to receive it.

Spiritual Healing Clears the Path to Love

A Spiritual Clearing session can clear what no longer serves you and accelerate the process of forgiveness, self-love, and strengthen your connection to God’s Love.

How Spiritual Healing Helps You Attract a Soulmate

Spiritual healing:

• Clears past partner attachments
• Releases soul-level trauma
• Frees blocked emotions
• Repairs your energetic field
• Restores your identity and worth
• Breaks generational patterns
• Aligns you with divine love

When you’re cleared of the situations and your spirit is grounded, you can attract the relationship God intended — not the ones born from pain.

Ready to Attract Your Soulmate Through God? Begin With  Spiritual Shamanic Healing

If you feel stuck in cycles that keep you from the love you desire, you don’t have to walk the journey alone. 

At Rosa Mystica Spiritual Healing & Home Clearing, I offer healing sessions designed to help you:

• Break toxic relationship patterns
• Heal emotional and spiritual wounds
• Restore inner peace
• Reconnect with God
• Open your heart to divine love

Learn more about the power of spiritual shamanic healing in my blogpost: https://rosamysticaspiritual.com/2025/05/23/can-one-healing-session-truly-transform-your-life/

Visit my website to book:

🌿 www.rosamysticaspiritual.com

You can also listen to the episode that will be released in late December 2025 on my YouTube channel where another healer, Alexander, and I  share our own journeys to attracting our soulmates through God. Subscribe here to my YouTube channel @heldtoheal: https://www.youtube.com/@heldtoheal

You are worthy of a love that is holy, healthy, and aligned.